You sound like my husband! He makes meditation out of picking dandelions in our yard... In all seriousness, gough, I think drinking is so tangled up with socializing, and as such from the outside looks FUN. I often still catch myself in the trap of thinking I need to be partying/socializing in order to be joyful. There are of course so many other joys to living, and no one gets to judge them..
You sound like my husband! He makes meditation out of picking dandelions in our yard... In all seriousness, gough, I think drinking is so tangled up with socializing, and as such from the outside looks FUN. I often still catch myself in the trap of thinking I need to be partying/socializing in order to be joyful. There are of course so many other joys to living, and no one gets to judge them..
Thabk you :) I appreciate knowing others feel this too